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Letting Go

May be the hardest thing to do in life, but undeniably the most cherished gratitude that you can offer to yourself.

All of are no strangers to loss. We’ve watched family members and friends die or part away. We’ve all had romantic relationships end in a spectacular explosion and we’ve had them end in a long, drawn out silence. We’ve lost friendships, jobs, cities, and communities. And, most tragically we’ve lost belief and faith—in both ourselves and others.

Human mind has the most complicated texture in nature. It hold on to pain and memories, beyond their ability to serve us; because among life’s chaos, we believe they give us a sense of identity. Yes, it may be true, since every mistake and every pain creates us and each experience brings out our true potential. Nevertheless holding on to things that we don’t have any control over, also has the power to eventually destroy our sense of self.

The thought of letting go involves a conscious choice versus a physical action. Also it can be extremely challenging and terrifying. It can also be very excruciating because letting go is not always something you’re prepared to do: especially if your heart and mind are singing two different songs.

Sometimes life enlightens us with lessons in the hardest possible way. When we are no longer in a position to alter anything that is happening, we must awake the warrior in our self and  find courage to accept what is happening as it is.

Letting go means liberating yourself from all the negative energy surrounding you, letting go means expanding your life to see the world differently and letting go means forgiving yourselves and the circumstances that created your state of mind.

As the well-known quote, ultimately what matter is how much you loved…how gently you lived and how gracefully you let go of the things not meant for you…

 Let go….embrace yourself…just think a min….

Gratitude

Vague and unfocused mind of mine
Glanced through the darkness,
To be shattered by life
Over and over and over again,
Life knocked me down,
And I never stood-up
It was my own misery,
And it drew myself-in
The deeper it goes, the more I stuck-up
Sorrowful things have surrounded me up
No matter I shouted, No body heard me up
It was my fault that I looped through life
Making bad decisions, one at a time
As I have repented when the days passing by
Moaning for ‘the love-s’ that destroyed my life
Suddenly,
It was a mid-day of August,
The day she came to me
Like a ‘divine angel’ who came to rescue me
She pulled myself up and patted me back
Taught me up to never give-up
Said, ‘Life went on and never looks back’
I was eased with pain and it’s time to look up
I wondered as if kindness runs through her veins
Cause, she’s admirable for the things she has done
A true soul that I can count myself on
My gratitude for you, will be ‘forever on’
As long as life went on,
And no matter what!

Escape

I run and run
Digging my bare soles in to the darkness
Only the moonlight to lit my pathway
I run to find solitude
To break away from this feeling of trapped
I run to stumble on a way
Until I can feel the breeze dancing with me
I run wildly beyond the horizons
To feel an eternal moment
Until I can feel that illuminated touch again
I run to make myself complete
To believe in the magic inside me
Only to witness
The Sun gliding through the clouds
The butterflies embracing the petals in the roses
Making me aware
That I’m the survivor
Who endured thousand agonies of spring
I rest;
Uncovering a warrior in my self
Finally to taste the summer’s bliss!

Companion

In the cold light of day
Where loneliness strikes at its best
She was all by herself
Lost,
Inside her tiny little world
On the rare nights
When the ‘demons-of-past’,
Haunted back at her
She ached alone,
All by herself
Desperately, she was
In need of someone
To cling-on to
As the past shattered her soul into unrecognizable pieces
She was afraid of constant-relationships
Her thoughts have been raped,
And has thrown away
There were no familiar voices at all
The voices,
Who could support her, love her
Or give her a hand
Deeper down,
She has lost herself,
In a place she rarely acknowledged
Her life was a mess, painted in a gray-scale
There were no beams of hopes, at all
But yet,
She was a dreamer, a fighter and a believer
Who search through the rubble of life,
To find the pebbles of happiness
Just then one day,
She found the ‘love of her life’
Who had accepted her as a whole
Sorrows started to fade away
Fantasies of a little girl in her twenties
Started to bloom-up
Though ‘he’ is not a Knight in a shining armor
He is a true ‘Companion’,
To herself,
And to her wounded heart.

Grow old with me…..the best is yet to be…..

Growing old together, still being in love is the most beautiful fraction of a relationship. Though it is not a miracle; it’s certainly an accomplishment that requires much dedication. The fact that whether you are with the right person holds very little significance since, it is very seldom in life that we find the ideal life partner. A great relationship is all about learning to love the person you are committed to and treasuring your better half for the rest of your life.

Witnessing an amazing transformation

Growing old together means, grasping the changes that life offer along the way; those changes may be in the form of financial, physical or social. It is also witnessing your partner embracing an amazing transformation from young and naïve in to an old and bold individual.  Happiness is not a constant state of mind and true relationship involves a roller coaster ride which has its own ups and downs. Romance and intimacy to be present daily is a myth and accepting this fact and uncovering ways to revive these feelings is what a strong bond requires. Every now and then engaging in childlike activities and discovering ways to have fun in various ways without losing the sense of wonder keeps the mundane feelings away from the relationship.

While children will undoubtedly make the foundation of the marriage more solid; experiencing the whole journey of parenthood together is the essence that adds flavor to the marriage.

It is the little things that matters

It is the small gestures in life that create the biggest joys in the heart. Hence showing the love and affection you have for each other every day even in a small act can bring so many blessings in to the relationship. May it be a text message with love, a surprised gift, a bouquet of flowers or just a random hug.

Wrinkles bring wisdom in to the marriage and it is a real privilege to have someone to grow old with, to have someone to expose your vulnerabilities and finding a sense of protection in one another. Pure kindness towards each other shields the relationship from the evils in the world and being each others’ best friend throughout this journey makes the living worthwhile. It may not be a perfect journey, but a unique one that belongs only to the two of you.

Growing old together is experiencing an adventure with your best friend and what matters most is learning to enjoy the ride along the way. A true love is finding a place to call “Home” in one another, believing in each other, staying strong for each other at their worst and finally arriving at every destination in life…holding hands..Together…!

Why “She” should be respected

The sunshine that surrounds us…the warmth of a woman…

Imagine a day without women; just think what would life be like if there is no essence of a woman in it.  Then you will know her worth.

Women paint this world with many colors with their diverse emotions. Though women are considered to be fragile and sentimental, they embrace their beauty with this vulnerability. Women have the ability to transform any tiresome venture to an exciting one. Often women add serenity and they help to practice a realistic approach to most critical scenarios in life. A woman’s contribution to this world is simply a positive one. Most importantly she convert a house to a home.

A woman’s ability to love unconditionally and compassionately is the epitome that the life on earth still lingers on.   Her kindness towards every relationship in her life and her ability to forgive even when it’s hurting; has made her the pillar of strength in the family. A woman is a silence sufferer. She holds a strong emotional endurance. For most women every day is a constant struggle. A struggle to survive and to maintain a balance in their lives; a struggle to take care of every one that depends on them while keeping their sanity.  This process is somewhat unknown to the men in their lives as they always tend to hide their pain in their laughter.

Women generally love to laugh. Their laughter has the ability to make every despair in life disappear.  A home where the woman is smiling is a place where there is a bliss of paradise; since her sincere smile can lighten up any house hold whether it is a shelter or a palace.

A woman’s most prized possession and her most sacred position derives in the form of motherhood. She nurtures the future of this world because she knows that the greatest contribution to nature itself is the little lives she raises.

As it is expressed by someone;

You can feel the strength of a woman in the form of a mother…..

You can feel her innocence in the form of a daughter…..

You can feel her care in the form of a sister

And

You can feel the depth of her soul in the in the form of a lover….!

So, while women should empower each other everyday, as they understand their journey and their pain better than anyone else; men should encourage them, protect them, value them…most of all respect them. It will certainly give them wings to fly.

A father’s Love…the unspoken emotion…!

To the most magical person in my life….

The day that I first held you in my arms; my soul saw you and it kind of went…Oh, there you are…I’ve been searching for you all my life. From the moment I have laid my eyes on you, I have found the purpose to my existence in this world.

Though, the days have become longer and a good night’s sleep has become a luxury, you make every little obstacle in life worth taking on and they seem to disappear when I see your smiling face. Life kept on challenging me in so many ways and from you I finally found the reason. Through those tests and trials I have become stronger, to be there for you when the going gets tough.

The love I have for you; the responsibilities that grew within me since the day you arrived, changed and shaped my life in such a way that I cannot still believe how someone so little have such profound effect on me from the very first sight. Days before you; I considered myself to be the toughest person among my friends, indifferent to many things happening around me. But, you proved me wrong. I am now a different person, a very sensitive person; because I have become very protective of you. I want to shield you from the evil in this world.

The best parent in me you may have not seen, but what I see is the most precious person in you; my best friend in you.

I love how your face lightens up when you see me, as if I’m the only hero in your life. I love how your little finger grasps my hand, as if I’m the only protector you have. I love how you cuddle with me, as if my warmth gives you the greatest comfort in this world.

Spread your wings and live LIFE to the fullest my little angel; because I am going to live mine through your eyes. I LOVE YOU!